What I do like:
- that Elsa never shows any romantic interest for anyone and no one does for her; this supports the message that you don't need a romantic partner to be complete/satisfied, which I think is a healthy message for people of all ages/gender
- that Kristoff is not stereotypically "pretty," which supports the idea that perfect looks aren't the only important quality in people
- that Elsa is never villainized, and is supposed to be a sympathetic character
- that Elsa is honestly ok with being on her own and isn't secretly wishing that someone could just love and understand her; she means it when she says that even if she's alone, she has her freedom and is happy that Anna can be safe (even if the latter is wrong)
What I don't like:
- that the relationship between Anna and Elsa is underdeveloped compared to other main duos such as Merida and her mom in Brave; the sisters' relationship should be the focus of the movie rather than consisting of only a few scenes and getting shoved out of the way for Anna's romance plots. We only hear Anna say that she trusts Elsa, but since her actions and dialogue are half devoted to the love plots, we don't see any true care for Elsa. If they had lengthened the "Do You Want to Build a Snowman" sequence by putting in scenes of the sisters talking to their parents about wanting to see each other, being sad at being separated other than just Anna's boredom and sadness, or maybe visually remembering the times they spent together, it would've been stronger and I would've been more convinced that they honestly loved each other despite being like strangers.
- that their relationship was so underdeveloped that the climax felt awkward and empty, especially since you know everyone'll be fine in a minute or two (*even if you know everything will be fine in a story, you can still have an emotional response if relationships/situations are developed correctly; Brave's climax made me cry); there's no material in the story that would actually give Anna reason to (spoilers!) sacrifice everything for her sister other than the obligation she has as being family. I'm not saying that she shouldn't have saved Elsa, but I'm saying that there needed to be more seen development between the two that would actually give the impression that Anna loved her so much that she'd do what she did, not just because it happened to be the right thing to do as a sister. They had a good idea, but it wasn't fleshed out enough.
- that even though the climax is about a different type of true love than romantic true love (i.e. familial love), it was only barely in there since it happened at the very last second; this focus on familial rather than romantic love is also not new or that progressive since movies like Brave and Aquamarine also have climaxes that rely on familial love.
- that "Let it Go" is the only good song in the movie; the others are bland, have bad lyrics, or are just really typical/unoriginal (I really don't care for "For the First Time in Forever," I thought the melody/chord progression was very standard and predictable-though that's musical nit-picking) and overall it seemed like the writers were trying too hard to ensure that it became a classic and beat out past successes like The Lion King (which it sadly did)
- that all of the messages about love that the movie tries to convey are either confused, sloppy, misleading, or not properly supported by the characters' actions. It's ok to show that the concept of love is confusing and that not everyone understands it, but I want to be made to believe that the characters honestly understand what it is by the end, rather than "Oh, yeah, love exists! Why didn't I think of that! Everything is instantly fine!"
- that Kristoff and Anna, even though they're the main focus/duo of the movie from their meeting on, don't have good chemistry (because they're not properly developed-sensing a theme here?) and that their feelings for each other are not even remotely visible until the final section; Anna (spoilers!) only shows interest in him after she is told that he loves her, and we are never shown Kristoff developing feelings for her, he just suddenly loves her
What I hate:
- that (SPOILERS!!!) Hans was made to be a villain; it would have been much more original/subtle/realistic if they had kissed and it just hadn't worked, and they would've realized that crushes are not the same as true love (like if Enchanted were serious, since Giselle also realizes this to some extent), which I think would've been a much more mature message to give to kids-or anyone, really
- the trolls and their song/actions; their song gives a horrible (and extremely confused) message about love and relationships (You have to fix this guy, who has a ton of issues but is really sweet, by loving him! Oh, you can't love him cuz you're engaged? Let's GET RID OF the fiance!! Oh, wait, we're not really telling you that people can be changed, because "people don't really change"! But guess, what? Everyone needs fixing!), they completely disregard Anna's (and Kristoff's to a degree) feelings and situation, and the elder/shaman/leader, who at first seems to be the only dignified one, is almost the sole cause of all of Elsa's problems since he warns her against losing control due to fear BY MAKING HER AFRAID.
What I don't understand:
- why this being a "pretty" movie (i.e. gorgeous animation/visuals) is such a huge deal to people in terms of why they love it; has no one seen what Dreamworks produces lately? (I know that's not the case based on the sheer amount of Jack Frost fanart all over the internet.) Have people just not been watching Disney movies in the past few years, and this is the first one they've seen in a long time so they think that this is really visually ground-breaking or different from other animated movies? Yes, there are pretty visuals/character designs/etc, but, like with Ponyo, just looking amazing doesn't-and shouldn't-carry the movie
- why everyone thinks the movie is progressive; as stated above, it's not the first/only kid's movie, Disney or otherwise, to show non-romantic love as being most important, and I think many people focus on the fact that, in the past, Disneyhas shown instances of love at first sight or destined love without much interaction or action required, but fail to realize that those situations/ideas haven't shown up in a long time (Snow White, Sleeping Beauty, and Cinderella are really the only main ones)
- why people say that Anna is a good role model (see following point)
- why everyone thinks the movie is a good example of feminism; it does try (and has a few successes, mostly with Elsa) to be female-positive, but when the main character (Anna) 1) only has three notable moments of autonomy and power (getting Hans to let her go alone, getting Kristoff to take her up the mountain, and the climax where she ignores what everyone in the 3rd act has been telling her to do and acts out of her own will), 2) has "finding true love" as her main goal, and 3) is not only one of merely two women in the entire cast (the mother and the female troll don't count), but also has less scenes than the male characters in which she "actually does things" rather than just talks, I don't think the movie can be fully/properly be labeled as "feminist"-especially since the original Snow Queen story is apparently much more female-empowering/focused.
So to sum it all up: I think Frozen has good points in terms of the characters' traits, especially Elsa, but the story/plot/messages are weak/sloppy/confused, so I don't see why people are so obsessed with it. I don't hate the movie, I like "Let it Go" and Elsa, I didn't think Olaf was going to be as annoying as the trailers made him seen; but I think the story and development aren't fleshed out well and/or enough to consider this a "good" movie. I think it's perfectly fine to like and enjoy this movie; just, please, think about why you like it other than "it's pretty!" or "it's just a fantastic movie!", and be able to recognize that it's not flawless.